Just the other day meteorologist were calling for the 127th snowstorm of the season, and of course the path of the storm is always unpredictable. One are can expect five inches while another area…only a couple of miles away could get 10 inches.
It got me thinking about how unpredictable life can be on the YBR. Let me use a pending snowstorm to illustrate my point.
Say you live in Upper Bellybutton and the weatherman says you can expect about 1-3 inches of snow. Now say you have a friend who lives in Bended Elbow, which is about 25 miles east of Upper Belly Button. The weatherman is calling for 6 inches in Bended Elbow.
Now to add to the illustration, the weatherman is saying that people living in Arm Pit, 20 miles south of Upper Belly Button and Bended Elbow won’t get any snow at all.
It’s possible.
So, what’s my point.
Here it is. Numbered among our human weaknesses is our inability to understand that the weather in someone else’s life. We have a tendency to think that weather we are experiencing is the same weather everyone is experiencing. Seldom do we stop and think that just because something is or is not happening to us, that it must be the same for everyone.
Instead of weathermen predicting snow, let’s say they are predicting happiness. Just because I am experiencing happiness does not necessarily mean that someone else is also experiencing happiness.
Why is it so hard for us to understand that everyone’s weather patterns are not the same? Why do we think that just because what’s happening in our world is happening all over the world.
Weather are the conditions life throws at us. Sometimes we’re hit by a raging blizzard. Sometimes it’s bright and sunny.
Sometimes my life is stormy while your life is calm. That’s the way it is…sometimes.
I think what we need to do is understand that we have to be more understanding of other people…and their life conditions.
And if we know someone is snowed under maybe we can lend a hand and help shovel away some of the snow.